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The Times vs. Feminism

The Book Review’s recent nasty review of Katha Pollitt’s memoir is only the latest in a long line of outlandish attacks on feminists

By Susan J. Douglas

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Don’t become a feminist. I mean it. Because then you might end up like Katha Pollitt. Wait, isn’t Pollitt an award-winning poet and columnist? Isn’t her “Subject to Debate” column what most of us turn to first when The Nation arrives? As the sharpest feminist commentator in the country, doesn’t Pollitt make feminism seem cool?

Not if you’re the New York Times Book Review, which has rarely met a feminist it liked. The former ballerina Toni Bentley, author of a book on the delights of crotchless panties and the epiphanies of anal sex (I quote: a “direct path … to God”), was assigned to review Pollitt’s latest collection of essays, Learning to Drive and Other Life Stories, and apparently didn’t like it. Fair enough. But Bentley, possibly disappointed by the lack of sodomy, used her review as an opportunity to trash feminists and to trash Pollitt for both being one and not being one who is stereotypical enough.

“Groaning and moaning from clever, sassy women has become a genre unto itself,” writes Bentley of feminist writings, “the righteous revenge of the liberal, pre-, during- or postmenopausal woman,” meaning that even feminists cannot escape from being governed by their hormones and their wombs. Feminists, as we know, are always angry and “shrill”; they are “enraged, educated women” whom Bentley labels “vagina dentate intellectuals.”

Back in the early ’70s when women’s liberation became a major news story, the most frequently used image to illustrate the movement was a woman learning karate; male editors actually insisted on this. That way, you could convey quickly that all feminists were threatening, man-hating Ninjas. Similarly, Bentley likens the feminist writer to “a kind of intellectual Mike Tyson” (now there’s an oxymoron!) whose “pugnacious prose is her lethal weapon.” But what feminists really need—heard this before?—is a good fuck. “[S]he is still not as likely to be seduced into bed as the bombshell bimbo, one reason she’s so irate.” Ignoring a host of recent feminist books, particularly those written by young women, Bentley cites Daphne Merkin’s essay about being spanked.

Bentley’s review is part of a robust tradition in the Times Book Review to stereotype feminists as single-minded, humorless ideologues who march daily to some shrine where we all genuflect before images of Elizabeth Cady Stanton and then impose a rigid dogma on all other women. In Karen Lehrman’s June 1997 review of Meredith Maran’s memoir Notes From an Incomplete Revolution, Lehrman informed readers that feminism, for women, is about being able to “spit, smoke and sit with their legs apart,” that “good feminism” invariably produces “bad mothering” and that the women’s movement has “a line” about how all women should behave. Feminism is “outdated, repressive and condescending.”

This wasn’t surprising given that Lehrman was author of The Lipstick Proviso, which argued that women should reject feminism because what feminism is really about is forbidding women to wear lipstick or pantyhose. Even in Laura Miller’s critical review of Lehrman’s book, we learned that a “handful of college professors” and women in “women’s studies programs” do fit Lehrman’s stereotype of feminists as “a battalion of scolding academics who condemn makeup.” What feminists want for most women, as the title of this review suggests, is to be “Oppressed by Liberation.”

Pollitt was also profiled in the New York Times Magazine, and here the focus was on whether Learning to Drive—a personal memoir about motherhood, aging and betrayal by her boyfriend of seven years—made her a traitor to feminism. Did admitting to her fear of and inability to drive actually reinforce stereotypes about “female ineptitude and ditziness?” What did her “girlish confession” about her anguish over her boyfriend’s philandering “say about the current state of feminism,” as if one person, however prominent, stood for millions of others? Pollitt was also asked about the proliferation of nail salons, as if that somehow indicated that women no longer want equality.

Why is it unimaginable that the millions of feminists in this country might be complex people? That they might also have a sense of humor? Feminists, especially in the age of Bush, couldn’t make it from one end of the day to the next without a sardonic joke and a good laugh. Indeed, as Pollitt’s new book lays out in often eloquent and unsparing honesty, women—even ones as formidable as Pollitt—remain pulled between the powerfully competing ideologies of feminism and anti-feminism, between feminism and femininity.

Women, especially young women, are not about to give up the gains won by feminism, but they also see the costs of failing to conform to a narrow, corporate definition of femininity. This ongoing negotiation of defying yet acquiescing to prevailing norms about what a good, enviable, worthwhile woman should be is the story of most of our lives, nearly 40 years after the second wave. Stereotypes of feminists such as those proffered by the Times misrepresent and demonize women of all ages who continue to push for equality of opportunity for all, which has yet to be achieved.

Susan J. Douglas is a professor of communications at the University of Michigan and author of The Mommy Myth: The Idealization of Motherhood and How it Has Undermined Women.

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    “most frequently used image to illustrate the movement was a woman learning karate; male editors actually insisted on this. “

    Did they have a meeting where all the male editors were given these rather odd marching orders? :)

    Can a woman be both a feminist and anti-abortion? Or do feminists themselves impose a rigid dogma on all other women?

    Seems to me the problem with feminism is that it is a victim of its own success. Equal opportunity and pay for equal dedication and work. Equal access to education. Goals that have been largely, if not entirely, met.

    PS - if we want to use anecdotes, how about those feminists at Duke University that condemned the lacrosse players? I am sure they have been very apologetic for their horrible racist and sexist statements, right? :)

    Posted by wolf on Oct 9, 2007 at 8:05 AM

    Hm, personally I’m more of a humanist than a feminist, although I’m not a true “-ist” of any kind because I’m too suspicious of “-isms”. More inclusive, more timely, at least as necessary as feminism once surely was (and may still be, at least in some contemporary incarnation).

    “Women, especially young women, are not about to give up the gains won by feminism, but they also see the costs of failing to conform to a narrow, corporate definition of femininity.”

    I hope this is an editing error, but shouldn’t it say, “...the costs of conforming to a narrow, corporate definition of femininity...”?

    Who wants a narrow, corporately-conforming person of any kind? I think only Taliban.

    Gotta be a typo.

    Posted by Kuya on Oct 9, 2007 at 11:33 PM

    Thank you for writing this!

    I was also taken aback by the review of Pollitt’s book and puzzled by the choice of Bentley as reviewer.

    I am and have been a feminist since I first learned about feminism in high school (I am 53).

    I have learned a lot about women, men, and how they can relate from conversations with thoughtful, emotionally present people. I have learned equally as much from the writings of those who have struggled with what feminism means, the effects it has had, and how it changes through time.

    I have never learned anything from someone who doesn’t know me telling me who or what I am ... as a feminist or as anything else. Individuals are complex. All of the -isms we use when describing ourselves are necessarily constricted shorthand that represent large, complicated landscapes in our psyches. Curiosity, openness, and authenticity allow us to explore those landscapes.

    What could be more fun than that?

    Posted by AriseSubside on Oct 10, 2007 at 10:59 AM

    The trouble with feminism really is that the loudest feminists are the ones that give it a bad name. the feminists that are the stereotype described above rarely exists, you want us ti believe. However, they are the ones that promote their cause the most.

    If you want to change that make them shut up, or seek the public instead of them. As long as that does not happen (and it will not i think) stop calling yourself feminist.

    you cannot complain about peoples perception of a thing. if i for example would be catholic but do not like what the pope does- well tough luck! then i can not be upset that people assume i am supporting his ideas when i go around calling myself a catholic.

    the same is true for feminism. feminism has been hijacked by some unnerving retards who misuse the idea of equality to push through their insane political agenda (see Christina Hoff-Sommer).

    I call myself a humanist. So far a term that has not been hijacked as far as can see. And it is much more inclusive than the term feminism. To many males “feminism” has a bitter taste of “anti-male”. humanism includes everyone who favors a world of equals- each in accordance to their own preference, not following a “feminist blueprint” for what they think equality should be.
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    Posted by Snusket on Oct 11, 2007 at 3:37 AM

    Connie Schultz: ‘The privileged already have their advocates. They don’t need me.’

    Except for Hillary Clinton.
    A feminist who supports another woman solely on her gender is like the fool that rallies around the flag with a t-shirt that says, “my country, right or wrong”.
    One is left to wonder if African- Americans feel that Condoleeza Rice or Clarence Thomas furthered the legitimacy of black participation as anything other than Uncle Toms or, as Belafonte suggested, “house servants”.
    Surely Rice and lately, Ms Pelosi, serve to underscore the reverse; woman in roles with a high degree of responsibility are incompetent.
    And I don’t think it is particularly in the best interest of woman to advocate role models who seek success by emulating the very worst traits of macho bravado and that would be Clinton.

    Posted by Vern on Oct 17, 2007 at 9:23 AM
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