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Virginity or Death!: A Conversation With Katha Pollitt (cont’d)

I think that there are areas in which the feminist movement is a victim of its own success. There have been so many victories, but again, spread in a very uneven way. So, if you’re an educated person, if you’re able to compete in the current economic setup, things are so much better for you than they were in my generation, let alone my mother’s generation. We forget about all those people who are not so well equipped to compete: single mothers, poor people, people who are not equipped for this modern sort of weird economy that we have. If you’re a factory worker, then you’re really in trouble.

It also used to be that all throughout your schooling you had a very sexist experience that filled one with a certain amount of rage and anger. There’s so much less of that now. Where discrimination really comes down like a ton of bricks is when you have children. Then you’re in a different position from men. It’s really difficult to do political work when you’ve got a baby, a job and some relationship with some man. You don’t have the same kind of time you did when you were a student or just breaking into the work pool.

A lot of your columns in this book deal with 9/11 and its aftermath. I wanted to talk about an essay that got you in trouble, called “Put Out No Flags.” You wrote it right after 9/11—your daughter wanted to post a flag in your window, and you said no. Tell us about the reaction from readers.

Well, this essay is the reason I’m the 74th entry in Bernard Goldberg’s book, 100 People Who Are Screwing up America. But you didn’t mention the money quote, where I say that to me the flag is a symbol of racism, and jingoism and war. That’s what got them so mad. And then my daughter says, “Well, for me, it’s a symbol of ‘We’re in this together and solidarity.’ “

So there was a big uproar. The Weekly Standard had a campaign to “Send flags to Young Miss Pollitt,” my daughter. This was then picked up in the horrible New York Post. And I’m thinking, “Oh my god, we’re just going be deluged with flags.”

Well, you know, how many flags do you think we got? We got one flag. These people are so cheap! It wasn’t even a full flag; it was a little nylon flag.

Made in China

And then we got a little flag you could put in your drink. Some people drew flags. And my daughter got a check for 10 dollars.

Patriotism pays.

We got a lot of letters that were very nice and thoughtful, along with some hate mail. And then we got some hate messages left on our answering machine. That was really interesting, because I played this message for my daughter and I said, “You see, this is what I mean about the flag being a symbol of racism, jingoism and war.” And she said, “Yeah, I know, you win.” It totally backfired.

And did she take her ten dollars and go buy a flag? No, she bought a Green Day CD.

God bless America.

Here was the lesson: It put the conservatives in a funny position, because they’re very big on the authority of the parent. I did say that she could hang a flag out of her bedroom window—but the living room is mine, I pay for the living room, it’s my furniture.

So some people wrote in, “Dear Sophie, you should give your mother a kiss. She’s wrong about this, but…” That was very interesting; for them it was patriotism versus family values.

You live in New York City. How were you personally affected by 9/11?

It was horrible; it’s still horrible to think about. But it’s been so fetishized that your own little personal feelings can’t really live up to it…that whole 9/11 kitsch thing.

Now, they’re building those horrible buildings, they’re so ugly. Would you want to work on the 3000th floor of the Freedom Tower? I wouldn’t. And they can’t even build it, that’s the other thing. It has been five years. You begin to think, “Can’t we do anything right anymore?”

What’s the matter with this country? We used to have this big can-do spirit and now everything just seems to get bogged down.

What do you think about the way that people have reacted to 9/11 in the intervening years? There’s a lot of conspiracy, a lot of speculation.

Two thoughts: First, 9/11 had a different meaning outside New York; its patriotic meaning was very magnified. I think in New York we had a personal reaction, a lot of people’s lives were affected in all kinds of concrete ways, and a lot of people had trouble adjusting. But New York was one of the most anti-war places in the country. I kept thinking, “Hey, don’t talk to us about how 9/11 is why we should invade Iraq; we were there and we’re against it.”

And about all of this conspiracy theorizing: It’s like somehow it has to be that because the Bush administration has benefited, it has to have caused it. Those are two very different things. You can exploit all kinds of things that come along without having arranged for it first.

Yeah, there were warnings, there were things people could have picked up on, but a lot of stuff just sort of goes under the bridge. Balls are dropped in every area of life. I would even give the administration that. It’s just that what they made of it is so terrible. That’s what I find just unforgivable. Its just obscene to take these natural feelings people have of fear, vulnerability and sorrow and turn them into an excuse for invading a country that didn’t have anything to do with this.

One of our writers, Christopher Hayes, wrote about the post-9/11 symbolism the administration used, tapping into an identification with the Greatest Generation, and the yearning for a sense of national vision, a sense of purpose, a sense of community.

Its amazing to me—and it says good things about this country—that despite all these things and the appeal of war, which is always exciting, that most people are against this war. They might have been for it in the beginning and if we had “won,” whatever that means, they probably would still be for it. But they do see the handwriting on the wall.

The terrible thing is, even though most people are against war, it doesn’t come together in a way that is a real political threat. And people keep looking for that. It’s as if people don’t really know what to do with that antiwar feeling they have.

I think that in a lot of ways, the left is always looking for that one cause, that one rallying point, or the one big event that will justify or really unify the movement. And I’m not sure what that is or what it’ll take.

Well, isn’t there also a sense that history will do the work of politics for us? People glom onto, in a slightly opportunistic way, whatever seems to be the going thing. Like, outsourcing, you don’t hear so much about outsourcing anymore. Or the Dubai company owning the ports.

Before we stop, let me ask you about one more controversial aspect of your work: You don’t have a lot of patience for religion. I really appreciate that, but I feel like there’s been a lot of fear, even among progressives, to say anything about religion because of the “values” discussion that happened after the ‘04 election.

What sort of reactions do you get from those columns?

I get two reactions: One is, “Oh it’s really great that you’re saying this, Katha,” and the other is, “Shh, shh, quiet, pipe down—we have to show the Heartland that we love them.”

I don’t have anything against religion. Well, I do, but that’s not relevant. What’s relevant is that I just don’t think that religion should be involved in government.

Each of us has all kinds of beliefs that don’t have anything to do with reason or proof—we’re probably all completely insane. So, I’m not one of these people who says that if you’re religious you’re just an idiot, you’re evil. But history shows us that when religion gets into the realm of government, it’s bad. Soon everybody’s fighting everybody else and tyrannizing everybody else and justifying the most horrible things because they think God wants them to do it.

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• Reader Comments

  First of all, I want to commend Katha Pollit for her wonderful and very aptly titled book. I for one do have major problems with organized religion. And yes i do think many religious adherents in the US have very low cognitive ability. How can one describe an individual that believes the earth is only 6,000 years old or that the earth was created in just six days? Can such an individual be respected as intelligent? These folks are the underpinnings of a regime and political trend that will undo our democracy and wreak the havoc of war upon much of the world. These US clerico-fascists are spreading their irrational hate and repression throughout US society and it is dangerous.  Their overwhelming obsession with controlling people’s sexuality is central to keeping a conservative mood in the country and from keeping people from making their own decisions. Sexual repression is a model for other types of repression. By placing women and youth under the sexual control of repressive patriarchy they maintain a kind of moral conservatism that bolsters political conservatism. When people think for themselves they challenge authority. They also seek to erode the current hegemony of that authority with a counter hegemony of alternatives the success of which can delegitimate the ruling elite as a source of all solutions. This is greatly feared by those in power.

  Posted by cabdriverinchicago on Oct 28, 2006 at 12:59 AM

  As a Generation X guy I would like to thank the hippies who gave us HPV, AIDS, Herpes,drug resistant clap, rampant abortion , ridiculous divorce rates, and the fact the only safe sex in the new century is over the internet..... Second as the spawn of Leftist/ Socialist/ Secular Humanist parents I am the black sheep who enjoys religion, nationalism, and firearms. I have managed to summon enough cognitive abilities to recognize cabdrivers alternatives as Sociology 101. Conflict theory............

  Posted by texasindependent on Oct 28, 2006 at 11:44 PM

  The hippies didn’t give you any of those things the government did from what I read in the underground press, man. And who cares how many abortions occur. Do you really want all those folks around anyhow?  And what’s wrong with high divorce rates? Does it affect you and your relationships? Human Papaloma Virus could be cured with a vaccine but who is against it? The same crackers who like G-d, guns, and country. Get a clue dude!!

  Posted by cabdriverinchicago on Oct 29, 2006 at 12:56 AM

  texasetc,
  Lol,
  you are pathetic. You definately have a problem, and grown up attitudes to sex is one of them. Stop pretending to be the offspring of people who can think, and just admit to pathetic partisanship. If you are having sex over the net, you need to get out more, and if you don’t want to catch diseases, use a condom.

  Posted by Jane Doe on Oct 29, 2006 at 6:36 PM

  “The hippies didn’t give you any of those things the government did from what I read in the underground press, man”

  This is an awfully paranoid statement coming from a supposedly “intelligent” person.

  “And what’s wrong with high divorce rates?”

  It definitely affects the children involved, and not in a good way.

  Posted by chopper on Oct 30, 2006 at 9:05 PM

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